Two Making Up

You will probably experience a difficult time after your man breaks up with you. You may not even feel like yourself for a while. Your life may even feel like it has lost meaning. You take a deep breath and decide you want to get your guy back.

You may find it is difficult getting someone back that broke up with you. For some, or multiple reasons the guy has  decided that he no longer wants to be together and work things out. They decided that they wanted to end the relationship. Working out problems in a relationship is much easier to do while you are still in it, compared to after it has ended.

Now that we have the bad news out of the way, the good news, many times you can get your guy back if he broke up with you. At this point you need to make a decision, and that is that you are absolutely sure that getting back with him is what you really want. Make sure your reasons for wanting to get back together with him are the right ones. Make sure that they are the right reasons why you want him back and not just because you are used to being with him.

You must understand something at this point, getting a guy works sometimes and sometimes it doesn’t. Not all people can get back together and move forward. Some people can re-ignite  the magic of a relationship they once had.

So you have decided you want to get your guy back, you need to realize that there is no room for negotiation. So clear your head, get your emotions under control and lets move forward. Guys are not crazy about women who can’t control their emotions, at least most of the time. First step will be to make contact with him, but if you don’t have your emotions under control you could do more damage. Imagine this scenario, if he was starting to have second thoughts about you and starting to think about you, and you are an emotional wreck, you may only confirm his choice to break up with you.

The ideal thing for you to do at this point is to start living your own life rather than wondering what he’s doing, or feeling. You need to prove to yourself and him that you are being mature about the breakup. Engage your normal routines and do things that make you feel good about yourself. Hang out with your friends and meet some new people.

When the word gets around that you are staying active and living your life, you will have a better chance of getting him back. When you do not contact with him,  no email, no calls, no messages, you’ll often find that he may eventually call you.

When he calls, engage in small talk and tell him how busy you are and have been. Keep the conversation light, no emotions or feelings and maybe even a little cool but friendly. He won’t know what to think. Should he mention that he wants to see you again, make sure you look great. It is too early in the process for touching or kissing. When you leave give him a hug if you want but that’s all. This will make him crazy. After that take it slow and you should be able to get your guy back pretty easy.

Look your best, and you will feel your best. Give him some space. More than likely he will contact you so he can see you again. A little flirting and teasing can never hurt when you do. Make him earn your affections slowly.

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