Two Making Up

OK, you two broke up and now with some time behind you can’t stop thinking about her. All you can think about is getting her back. If you are serious about getting your girl back, you will probably have to make some changes.  I am sure you analyzed the break up over and over in your head, but you need to stand back and take an objective look at what really caused the break up. Be brutally honest with yourself, was it something you did, or maybe didn’t do? Is it something that you can still fix, or is it too late?

If you were honest and objective about it, and decided it was something you did or didn’t do and you can fix it, then do it now.  Apologize and undo whatever you did or do whatever you should have done. Depending on what the particular thing done or undone is, it might not be enough to get your girl back. However, it should be a move in the right direction to getting her back. Should the incident or event be something that can’t be undone or fixed you need to explain and make sure she knows that you’re truly sorry. A one on one honest and open conversation can go along way.

Getting Her Back

Next, hopefully you both can leave the past incident behind and talk about now. Then it is time to start thinking about getting your girl back, and hopefully make her want you back. Depends how things are going up to this point, that may sound optimistic. If at the end of the relationship she was upset and angry, then you have to be the YOU that once used to be to make her happy. Whatever you did (you knuckle head) you’re going to have to be extremely patient, forgiving and understanding. Listen to her needs, be sympathetic and take it slow. Let her set the pace if there will be one for getting your girl back.

Get Her Back With a New You

If you left the relationship angry or upset, SUCK IT UP, you said that you want to get your girl back. You better show her you good side whenever you talk or see each other. Make her remember your good qualities by showing her, not telling her. Hopefully she will realize that you are truly sorry when she gets to see the side of you that she fondly remembers. Maybe you will be able to get your girl back.

Make sure you pay close attention to her when you see or talk to her. Be sure to listen to her carefully and let her finish. Let her express her feelings and talk without telling her how she ought to feel or what she should do. You won’t get your girl back by trying to tell her what to do. (remember how you got here)

Pay close attention to the way the two of you interact, so that you can see if she is coming around and if your efforts are having an effect. Is she talking to you the way it used to be before the break up? If so maybe your efforts to getting your girl back are starting to work.

The new you, might be someone that she enjoys spending time with and will want to be around you more. This is when it is so critical to pay close attention, if she stops seeing you as much as before, or she becomes distant or angry when you talk to her. Take that as a sign that you’re moving too fast. Remember to take it easy and let her set the pace.  Following her lead or signals will be the best way to get your girl back. If this sounds like too much work, maybe you should of thought about that before you said you wanted to get her back.
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